I'm sorry it's been so long. I don't really have a good excuse; I told Jake recently that I feel like we're letting our lives run us instead of having the control over them that we should have. Hopefully we can get a better handle on our responsibilities and schedules and find some balance. One of my friends said something about being glad that I'm engaged so I can not have my moniker anymore; should I change the name of my blog? I've had it for so long; can one just go and change that?